Change Your Mindset About Losing Weight

The post below is from HealthNet and it confirms the theory that losing weight starts with a positive attitude and your willingness not to get discouraged because this might be harder than you thought.
Your brain can be your ally or foe when it comes to losing weight. Don’t let negative thinking prevent you from shedding those unwanted pounds. Tori Cohen, RD, Director of Food and Nutrition Services at Los Robles Hospital & Medical Center in Thousand Oaks, California, shares tips on how to turn negative, self-defeating thoughts into positive ones so you can reach your weight loss goal.

1. Be a Glass Half-Full Person
“This is hopeless. I’ll never lose weight!” Sound familiar? Don’t let negative self-talk become a self-fulfilling prophecy. “The way you think affects how you feel, which ultimately affects behaviors,” says Cohen. If you tell yourself you can’t do something, chances are you won’t. Instead, “think of the benefits of reaching a healthy weight,” suggests Cohen. “Positive thinking will encourage and inspire you to make changes.”

Practice saying, “I’m choosing progress, not perfection” or “I have the strength to do this!”

Even if past weight-loss attempts have proven unsuccessful, try to be optimistic – and learn from successful weight loss losers. “Start fresh, turn over a new leaf,” says Cohen. “Focus on what your future goals are and not on what has happened in the past.”

2. Praise Your Successes
No matter the challenge, you need positive self-esteem to succeed. And this is true with weight loss. When you have a setback — you devour the chips and cheese dip at the Mexican restaurant – your self-esteem can take a beating. But when you succeed, your self-esteem gets a boost. “Each time we make a positive move to our goal it will inherently give us motivation,” says Cohen. “The key is to take that motivation and keep moving forward.”

3. Take It Slow and Steady
Don’t fall prey to false advertisements. “Tabloids suggesting you can lose an extreme amount of weight in a very short period of time or fad diets that express the same notion are often suggesting that a person follows an unhealthy and unsustainable weight loss,” says Cohen.

Reaching a goal weight takes time, so be patient. “Safe, healthy weight loss is one to two pounds per week,” says Cohen. If you find yourself getting frustrated every time you step on the scale, don’t weigh yourself as often. Many experts recommend you weigh in no more than once a week.

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Does Stress Effect Our Weight?

I always knew stress had an effect on us and stress on people trying to lose weight is the main reason people give up. But I was listening to a radio talk show today and he was talking about stress on employees. People that retire are more stress-free, happier, and healthier people. They have more time for themselves. They eat better and exercise more so is that the answer to being a healthier person? You have to quit your job and then you'll be healthier and happier?

Maybe, but we can't all do that. The radio host was also saying that most people don't realize how much stress they have in their life until they quit  their job and the weight is lifted off their shoulders.
The thing about stress is that it takes your mind off of you. It puts the focus on the problem or problems that are constantly on your mind and because your focus has shifted you are now spending your time worrying about these problems and that's what causes the stress.

If you have a busy lifestyle to the point where you are constantly the problem solver, then stress is your middle name and some people love it. But for the most part, people have a limit to the amount of stress they can deal with. You hear all the time how someone is stressed-out and to me that means they have more than they can deal with. If you're still in the workplace, you may know a few people who seem like they are always stressed-out. Sometimes we are pushed into these stressful positions at work and we have to accept them.

Being over-stressed is common in today's workforce and it's contagious. It's easy to bring it home with you and pile it on your spouse. Of course, your spouse may have just as much stress trying to deal with other family members or the spouse's job. All of this stress in a family contributes to the unhealthy population. Only three percent of our adult population lives a healthy lifestyle. The statistics are staggering.

I contribute the number of people living an unhealthy lifestyle to a stressed-out population. And it's these people that are a part of the 97 percent that are pushing the percentage of overweight adults up to a staggering 67 percent and still climbing.

Most people have never been taught to deal with stress or deal with the fast pace lifestyle we have today. This is why we have millions of adults overweight. I think because of the high-stress levels we have that many turn to comfort food to deal with their situation. Comfort foods has the excess salt, sugar and fat content that packs on the pounds. Because we're under so much pressure we don't care about how much we eat or drink, we just want some comfort. A release from the pressures caused by stress.

The young adults in our world are trying to avoid the problems associated with stress by waiting to get married, waiting to buy a home, and many young adults are avoiding stressful jobs. I think in the future employers will have to make the workplace a better place. A place more stress-free. I'd like to see that day real soon. Employers talk about employees being productive, but what they really mean is that employees need to do more. It's wrong to keep asking for more from your employees and just keep mounting up the pressure, because all that amounts to is more health problems that translate into more time off from work and more turn-over.

You have to be happy with your situation at home and at work and then you can deal with your health problems like being overweight.

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Why Do We Eat So Much At Night?

You stick to your diet all day and eat healthy well-balanced meals. Then the evening comes and you find yourself making repeated trips to the refrigerator or pantry to eat food that you don't really need. Sound familiar? If it does, you're not alone. Nighttime calories are a struggle for many dieters who find that they continue eating after dinner. If you're serious about losing weight, use these tips to stop eating so much at night.

This habit of eating after dinner is a habit you have to break if you want to lose weight.  Going to bed with undigested food in your system is the best way to add weight.  Read this post below and make this habit a priority to break. If you're going to lose weight you have to stop eating 3 hours before bed. 

You're normal if you like to snack and graze after eating dinner. But if you are trying to lose weight, the calories you consume from snacks in the evening could easily undo a day's worth of smart food choices. So the first step to eating less is to find out why you eat when you don't need to.

For most of us, the reason we overeat is related to the fact that we are less busy at night and we are near food. We like to relax and enjoy more leisurely activities and the food is a common source of comfort. Without the distraction of work or other daytime activities, it's easy to grab for snacks that are nearby. If you can find other ways to unwind, then you'll be likely to eat less at night. You can also use these strategies to curb nighttime eating.

How to Stop Eating After Dinner

The best way to curb your nighttime eating behavior for good is to use short-term strategies to break the habit. If you can replace snacking with a healthier habit, then you won't feel the urge to overeat in the evening.

Use one of these tips (or all three) to change your night-time snack habit.

Move away from the food. You're more likely to eat too much at night if you are always around food. So after dinner, move away from the kitchen. This might mean that you postpone clean-up tasks so that you aren't tempted to eat leftovers. Or better yet, delegate the job to someone in your house who isn't on a diet.

Another great way to get away from food is to go for a walk after dinner. I walk the dog after dinner. I get in extra activity to burn more calories. At the same time, I'm breaking the habit of snacking after dinner. But the real plus for me is I can sleep better. I'm not stuffed full and the walking has made me little tired. Even if your walk is just 15-20 minutes long, physical activity helps to break up the eating momentum. It also gives your body a chance to feel the sensation of fullness so the urge to eat is less strong. After I became accustomed to walking at night, I stretched out my walk to 45 minutes.

Use a "meal-ender" to curb your appetite. Some dieters use mint-flavored gum to diminish the desire to eat after dinner. Most of us don't like the taste of food when we have a mint flavor in our mouths. Brushing your teeth after dinner provides this same benefit - along with a dental bonus. That's true but I still like mint flavored gum whenever I have a craving to eat something.

You can also use MealEnders to stop eating so much. These small candies reset your taste buds so that you don't feel the urge to eat. MealEnders contain no stimulants and are regulated as a food product so they have to follow strict guidelines of the Food and Drug Administration, unlike many diet and weight loss supplements.

Be a smart television watcher. Most of us eat too much at night when we snack mindlessly in front of the television. Some researchers even believe that certain action shows make us eat too much food. Regardless of your show preference, however, you can create healthy eating habits in front of the television to eat less and lose weight.

One way to eat less is to keep my hands active. I do simple chores while I watch TV. Sometimes I read while I watch TV, my brother taught me that. And sometimes I stay on the internet at night and that keep my hands busy.

Remember, snacking isn't bad for your diet. But eating when you're not hungry is never a good plan. Learn to eat a healthy (not hardy) dinner and then create habits to stop eating  at night. You'll reach your goal weight faster and keep your weight off for good. Most diet gurus will tell you not to eat the 3 hours before bed. There's a good reason for that. Late night food won't have time to be properly digested and will end up being stored as fat.
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Eat Six Meals a Day to Lose Weight

I found this post on MedicalNet and I did try this and it did work for me. Eating several small meals helped me control the size of my meals. I don't know that I ate less, but I definitely wasn't hungry. You do have to eat quality food and control your calories. I kept my calories to 300 or less per meal and kept them all about the same size. Breakfast was my only exception if I had any larger meals it would be at breakfast. Breakfast is your first meal in 12 hours and I would be hungry, but if you eat a lot of protein your hunger will disappear. Read the following post and judge for yourself.

You’ve probably heard the advice that eating small meals throughout the day is how you win the battle of the bulge. The claim is that frequent snacking, as long as it’s healthy, keeps your metabolism humming, staves off hunger, and controls blood sugar. The end result: You eat less. Except it may not work that way.

A study from the University of Ottawa found that on a low-calorie diet, there was no weight loss advantage to splitting calories among six meals rather than three.

A second study found that switching from three daily meals to six did not boost calorie-burning or fat loss. In fact, the researchers concluded, eating six meals a day actually made people want to eat more.

And a research review reached no conclusions about whether meal frequency helps or hurts with weight loss.

So if the number of meals you eat doesn’t make a difference with weight loss, what does?

Calories, says Kristin Kirkpatrick, RD, a wellness manager at the Cleveland Clinic. Your best bet is to cut your daily calories, regardless of how often you nosh. If you want to eat more often, you can, as long as you keep your calories in check.

The Upside of More Than 3 Meals a Day

While eating many meals may not rev up your metabolism or make you burn fat, experts say it could help you in other ways.

The longer you wait between meals, the hungrier you get, and then you’re more likely to overeat.

“After about 3 hours without food, blood sugar begins to fall. And after 4 hours, your body has already digested whatever you sent down earlier,” says Cleveland dietitian Amy Jamieson-Petonic, RD. “Once you’ve crossed the 5-hour mark, your blood sugar begins to plummet, and you grab whatever you can to refuel.”

That’s why breakfast is so important. After 7-8 hours of sleep without food, you need energy to get moving, Jamieson-Petonic says.

People who regularly eat breakfast tend to weigh less than those who skip their morning meal. They also get more nutrients like vitamins D, B12, and A. They may even be more likely to resist food cravings and make better food choices, especially when protein is part of the meal.

If you start off your day with breakfast and then continue eating every 3 to 4 hours, you’ll provide your body and brain with a steady stream of nutrients so you don’t go overboard at mealtime.

How to Snack the Right Way

If you’re going to go the mini-meals route, your biggest danger is eating too much.

“As long as you choose good foods and keep portion sizes in check, frequent grazing can help you lose weight and keep cravings at bay,” Jamieson-Petonic says. The simplest strategy is mixing portion control with protein and fiber to fill you up. Plan nutrient-dense snacks like these:

• Fresh fruit with low-fat cheese
• Raw veggies with 1/4 cup hummus or tzatziki sauce for dipping
• Whole-grain crackers with 1 ounce of low-fat cheese or one tablespoon of nut butter
• 1/4 cup trail mix with nuts, dried fruits, and whole-grain cereal
• 1 cup nonfat Greek yogurt with fresh berries

Whether you’re grazing throughout the day or having the standard three meals, getting the most nutrient bang for your calorie buck is key. So avoid “junk” foods that are easy to overeat (processed foods, refined carbs, sugary drinks).

Instead, fuel up on protein and high-fiber carbohydrates. Both fill you up without weighing you down, Kirkpatrick says.

If you have trouble controlling portion sizes, or you don’t have time to prep healthy snacks, you may be better off with the old three-meal-a-day plan.

What Matters More

The number of meals you eat doesn’t matter as much as what you eat, Kirkpatrick says.

Fill your plate with plenty of fruits and vegetables, whole grains, and lean sources of protein.

Quality, calories, and portion sizes ultimately make the difference.
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Less Than 3 Percent of Americans Live a Healthy Lifestyle

I found this post today and I wanted to reblog this because we wonder why so many Americans are overweight. Is it any wonder.

Factors studied included not smoking, eating right, exercising and keeping a low percentage of body fat

By Robert Preidt

HealthDay Reporter

Do you get a moderate amount of exercise, eat right, keep from piling on fat and avoid smoking? Congratulations, you're among the 2.7 percent of Americans who do so, according to a new study.

Researchers say that, unfortunately, the other 97.3 percent of American adults get a failing grade on healthy lifestyle habits. The study looked at data on more than 4,700 people who took part in the U.S. National Health and Nutrition Survey. The researchers assessed how many people followed four general "principles of healthy living" -- a good diet, moderate exercise, not smoking and keeping body fat under control.

"The behavior standards we were measuring for were pretty reasonable, not super high. We weren't looking for marathon runners," said study senior author Ellen Smit, an associate professor at the OSU College of Public Health and Human Sciences, in Corvallis.

In fact, the standards used in the study are typical of lifestyle advice given by doctors to their patients, Smit's team said. People who adhere to those four behaviors can help reduce their risk of many health problems, including type 2 diabetes, heart disease and cancer.

Unfortunately, less than 3 percent of the adults in the study achieved all four of the healthy living measures, the researchers found. Overall, 71 percent of the adults surveyed did not smoke, 38 percent ate a healthy diet, 10 percent had a normal body fat percentage and 46 percent got sufficient amounts of physical activity. Sixteen percent had three of the healthy lifestyle behaviors, 37 percent had two, 34 percent had one and 11 percent had none.

Among the other findings: women were more likely than men to not smoke and to eat a healthy diet, but they were less likely to have adequate physical activity levels. And when it came to race and ethnicity, Mexican-Americans were more likely to eat a healthy diet than blacks or whites.

The study was conducted by researchers at Oregon State University, the University of Mississippi and the University of Tennessee-Chattanooga.

In terms of public health, the findings are disappointing, Smit said in an OSU news release.

"This is pretty low, to have so few people maintaining what we would consider a healthy lifestyle," she said. "This is sort of mind boggling. There's clearly a lot of room for improvement." Further research is needed to identify ways to get American adults to adopt more healthy lifestyle habits, the experts said.

The study was published recently in the journal Mayo Clinic Proceedings.

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The Secret to Dieting, Don't Diet

Did you ever wonder how people in some European countries manage to stay thin? When I was in Europe I didn't see an low-calorie food. Restaurants had no diet food or low calorie meals. But very few people were what we call obese. I've personally been to more than 15 European countries and normal people are in better shape than American. 

I read a non-diet book last year "The secret of eating" were by the author explains that diets don't work. This is a weight loss book about how this woman had gained 20 pounds while going to school in the States and then losing the weight when returning to France, her home country. She goes on to say that in France women don't get fat. In the States when she was going to school the portions of food were too large and foods were too sweet. Now I understand students call it the "freshman fifteen", it happens to everyone. 

When returning to Europe she returned home and returned to eating the way she grew up. In Europe women eat sensible. Good food of very high quality and eaten in small portions. Good food does not mean good tasting, it means food of good quality. You can eat anything you like but eat food of good quality, high in nutritional value. Small portions eaten slowly is better for you, and is satisfying. In the States, people eat too fast, we're always in a hurry to get somewhere. Eat on the run, I see people eat while driving every day. Woman feeding their children in the car while driving them somewhere. Drive-thru windows are so crowded they should have a gas pump half way to the window. Sometimes I spend 20 minutes in line for coffee, I stopped that. No more drive-thru's, if I can't stop and eat or drink at a table or counter then I don't need to.

You know it wasn't always this way. Families use to eat together. At school, all the kids eat together in the cafeteria. But at home we eat individually when we're hungry. Maybe that's why families eat out more. It might be the only way to get everyone together.

This plan is for anyone who had trouble sticking to a diet plan. "Don't Get Fat" is a 3-month plan meant to reset your body for a lifetime of healthy weight through slow, gradual weight loss. She goes on to say that many people will love the plan because there's no fitness classes but instead plenty of daily activity and lots of walking. Lots of walking is what people do in other countries and Americans don't do. In North America we drive everywhere; I have even been accused of drive a half block to the mailbox.  

To jump start your diet you begin with two days of leek soup. It cleanses the system so you can start out on empty. Followed by meat or fish, vegetables and a piece of fruit. Drink water with meals, be careful of bottled drinks or any drinks with sugar or sweeteners, those are empty calories. Not good.

At the beginning, keep a food journal. While your losing weight you need to evaluate your diet and identify excess calories. You will be able to eat anything after you reach your goal. The big part of reaching that goal is to learn to eat smaller portions. You may want to start by eating 5 meals a day about 3 hours apart. At night I snack on yogurt, low-fat greek yogurt is filling. You can eat yogurt 2 or 3 times a day, great snack full of calcium and protein. Almonds are a good snack in the afternoon. Change what you eat and how you eat and you'll lose weight.If you change what you eat, start to eat healthy, avoid processed foods (those are pre-made foods that are ready-to-eat), no dairy but you can eat non-fat greek yogurt, no enriched wheat flour, and no sugar or any artificial sweeteners.

I know what your thinking and yes this is a weight lose diet, but it's a lifestyle change. Your learning a new way to eat, a way that you will stay with from now on.

If your going to succeed in losing weight and return to a healthy life, you have to forget everything you're doing now. You have to forget about the foods your eating now, and start over. Whatever you've been doing to lose weight hasn't worked and what ever diets you've tried only gave you temporary weight loss, so if you really want to change your life and become a thinner version of you and a healthier person who will live a longer happier life, you need to start over.

Anything you've been eating will only put weight on you. You need to find a new diet with food you want to eat and that are healthy. You don't have to starve yourself but anything you eat needs to be beneficial to your body. Your food has to give your body energy, but not the energy spike you get from carbs or sugar but real energy that will stay with you. Processed foods will give you an energy high, but then you'll crash about an hour or two later and you get more food cravings. This is what leads to over-eating. Eating foods with to nutritional value that give you a temporary boost in energy, like a soft drink, and then in a short time you need more. These foods or drinks actually cause an addiction. Sugar is an example of a food that can cause an addiction and now science believes that enriched wheat is another man-made product that causes an addiction. It may be as bad for you as sugar.

Things like sugar and wheat have not always caused eating disorders or addictions. We are not eating the same things today that your grandparents did. A few decades ago, manufactures of raw material foods like wheat, sugar and white flour to name a few decided to change the way these raw materials were processed. So now when you read a food label wheat, for instance, is now enriched wheat and flour you buy says enriched flour. In the process of enriching the grain, they added chemicals to make the grains grow faster, so grains are more resistent to bugs and so they can increase production and increase profits. You wonder why a lot of your food comes from other countries. Yes, labor is cheaper in other countries, but using chemicals to enrich foods is not against the law. They can use chemical in other countries that we have band in the U.S. For instance, some of our best pesticides in this country were band because they're harmful to humans, but most other countries still use those pesticides in food production and then they sell that food to U.S. Retailers and it's sold in your grocery stores.

But that's not the whole story, food suppliers to restaurants will buy that food to save money. Those french fries you buy in restaurants aren't grown in Idaho. Yes, in the grocery stores they have to label the food so you know what country it comes from, but restaurants don't have to tell you and in most cases they don't know.

So if you truly want to be a fit, thinner and healthier version of you, you'll have to start over. Do the research and find foods that are good for you and foods you'll stick with. Your next diet is your diet for life. I picked the Mediterranean diet, it's not a weight loss diet but you will lose weight and become a healthier person and you can stay with it for life. You can find it on the web. Remember there's no short-cuts, you have to commit and stay with the plan. After 3 months if the plan doesn't work for you, don't give up, try another plan.

Weight Watchers is not for everyone but it will work if you follow the plan. They teach you how to eat and give you the support you need.

What ever plan you decide on and there's dozens, you want one that you can follow for life, remember there's no short-cuts.
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Weight Loss Myths and Facts

These are some facts about weight loss that are promoted by the diet gurus but may not be true.

"diets don’t work" that's only true about high-calorie diet. What these so-called experts should be saying is that strict diets only work temporarily.

"starchy foods cause weight gain" Not really, starchy foods are can add weight if you eat too much. For instance, white potatoes in moderation are very healthy, but if you eat too much of a starchy food you will consume too many calories.

"small frequent meal promotes weight loss" Yes eating small meals will help you control your weight but you will have to eat more often. If you try this watch those calories and try to hold the line at 300 calories a meal.

"bananas make you fat" Not really unless you eat several a day. Bananas are a good source of vitamins, but when you're trying to lose weight eat calorie rich foods in moderation.

"quick weight loss programs don’t work" These plans will work but only for a short time.

"watch out for peanut butter" Peanut butter is another food that's high in protein and other vitamins but also high-calorie. Most peanut butter contains Palm Oil and that's not on your diet. So yes you have to watch out for peanut butter and only eat in small quantities. 

"starvation mode will cause weight gain" When you try to lose weight by restricting your food, your body will go into a starvation mode and start to hoard  your nutrition. So your body will start to add weight in order to avoid starvation. 

"skipping breakfast" This will not help you to lose weight. Skip dinner and just eat a piece of fruit, that may help you to lose weight. Always eat most or 70% of your daily calories in the first 6 hours after you wake up. This will keep you from getting hungry.

"high-intensity workouts" can help you to lose weight but they're very strenuous and are only recommended for the advanced person. Someone in good physical condition.

"is more protein good" It can be but you still need to limit animal protein, so do some research to find good sources of plant protein. A good number to shot for might be 80 grams of protein a day.

"natural foods are better" I have always found that natural food is better. Organic is better yet. And free-range poultry or other livestock is better than livestock raised in confinement.

"fat burners will speed-up weight loss"The only thing I found with fat-burners is that they speed up your heart rate.

It can be hard for new dieters to face the fact that weight loss is really hard. So, most of us are tempted to believe the advertisements, books and program endorsements that tell us that weight loss is easy. 

But the truth is that changing any habit is hard. Changing our eating habits is especially difficult because our physical, social, cultural and sometimes even emotional patterns involve food and these patterns are already developed.

Learning to eat a healthy diet is certainly possible. But it takes time and practice. Is it worth the effort? Yes, absolutely. But before you start the process it's important to gather support and set both short and long terms goals to guide you through the process.

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